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Wild resources for trans/genderqueer & gender-nonconforming BDSM (Bondage, Dicipline/Dominance, Sadism/Submission, Masochism) explorers.
Dossie Easton, who has dedicated herself to “feminist, polyamorous, BDSM, spiritual, gender-diverse, and LGBTQ individuals and communities,” co-wrote this book with cohort and sex partner, Janet W. Hardy. This is a wonderful work of nonfiction that trails its finger along leather culture and sacred-sex practices. The book is hugely sex and gender-positive, funny and transcendent. The authors document their own journeys into the realm ecstatic kink: one author journeys Eastern and pagan spiritual paths while the other struggles to accept bliss. They share their triumphs, too: when conceptual frameworks cease to matter and bodies and spirits combine in radical ecstasy. For more beginner how-to’s check out Easton’s New Bottoming and New Topping books.
Renowned transgender author and activist, Patrick Califia, wrote No Mercy as a collection of short fiction that combines pornography, science fiction, romance, fantasy, fairy tale, and horror into a potent cocktail for queer grown-ups “who have been very, very bad and aren’t one bit sorry,” according to the book jacket. No Mercy is leather-flavored fiction without a safeword-smart, challenging, intellectual, funny, transgressive, and hot. It’s a one-handed read.
Written by acclaimed sex educator, Barbara Carrellas–who happens to be the long-time partner of transgender activist and author Kate Bornstein–Urban Tantra is a mix of erotic how-to and pleasure-centered spiritual wisdom. With more than one hundred easy-to-follow techniques for expanded orgasmic states and solo and partner play (as well as more adventurous practices). A very practical, helpful read. And extremely trans-positive.
This is not an introductory text on paganism, nor a BDSM how-to guide. Instead, intersex activist and leatherman champion, Raven Kaldera, skirts around traditional definitions of BDSM in favor of providing in-debth personal experience with a pagan spiritual context. Contributors discuss their perspectives on reasons for engaging in pagan BDSM, their own experiences, and rituals incorporating pagan spirituality and pain play and restraint
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Wild Gender is an online magazine and creative hub born out of gratitude for the gift of full expression. We are dedicated to creative practices that celebrate gender fluidity, identity and expression. Wild Gender prioritizes visual art, creative writing, and journalistic work by trans/gender-variant individuals who have never before been published in a public venue. Run entirely by volunteers,we are always in search of writers, thinkers, and creators hoping to participate in our growing community.
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